Much of Brekhus’ research comes from the many hours he spent in gay bars in New York City and the New Jersey suburbs. In his book, Brekhus concludes that there are three degrees of identity among gay men in the U.S. Being gay dominates the lives of “lifestylers,” men who are fully committed to their homosexuality and are proud and daring with their sexuality, much like a peacock. Others, known as “commuters,” see their sexuality as something to embrace only when in the appropriate environment. Commuters are like chameleons, Brekhus said; they change their attitude and behaviors to fit their surroundings. They take pride in their sexuality, but only at the right time and place.

Brekhus compares the third category of gay men, “integrators,” to centaurs, the mythological beast often portrayed as half-human, half-horse. Integrators don’t consider their homosexuality essential to their identity but instead see it as one small part of who they are.